Lose
all the weight you want,
fall in
love with your soul mate,
make millions
of dollars . . .
Why don't all of those
self-help books actually work?
Posted by
Sharyn: Monday, March 24, 2008
Spring
is in the air and I love the change of seasons. This season always brings
visions of growth, new beginnings and a chance to reestablish my priorities.
What have
you done during the first quarter that you are particularly proud of? Have
you rewarded yourself in a special way?
One of
the things that I have designed for my life is that I keep the 4th week
of the month open to make special meetings, lunches with friends. Life
is not only about work, despite what everyone might try to tell you.
Stop and
enjoy the time that you have. It's the memories that make life more interesting.
Posted by
Sharyn: Monday, March 17, 2008
Have you
noticed that almost everyone you know is going through one form of struggle
or another? I asked my spiritual guide what was going on because these
are major challenges.
He told
me that we are all being tested. I asked how long this is going to continue
and he said that when the time is right, we'll all be in an amazing new
way of life.
The big
lesson is to let go and stop thinking that we have control of what is going
on. I know it seems ridiculous, but the more we try to control what is
going on, the more the challenges will appear.
When we
are struggling with any aspect of our life, it is best to stop and take
stalk. What do we need to change? What is working in our live and what
needs to be improved.
Never let
negative emotions get the best of you. You will miss the lesson if you
do.
I know
it doesn't help to hear that so many others are experiencing these challenges,
but it might help to know that when you have come through the challenges
you are experiencing, you will be amazed at how wonderful your life will
become.
Posted by
Sharyn: Monday, March 10, 2008
Have you
ever compared yourself to others? I used to do this all of the time! I
used to wonder why others could make their lives seem so effortless and
I felt like I had to struggle and fight to get everything that I needed.
Have you ever felt like that?
About ten
years ago I started looking a little more closely at those people and realized
that they aren't as happy after all. Well, not all of them. As I got to
know them, they would reveal details about their life that made it clear
that they weren't happy at all. Maybe it was the job that they felt they
had to put up with even though they found little or no satisfaction in
the work. Or often it was because they had no one in their life that helped
them feel special. They had drifted away from their partner over the years
and found that they only drifted from one day to the next.
Whatever
you need to make yourself feel more fulfilled in your life, please take
the time to take care of it. One step at a time, one day at a time and
choose the day in the near future that you will have your life represent
your most ideal way of life in every aspect.
After all,
it is your choice!
Posted by
Sharyn: Monday, March 3, 2008
I had a
conversation with a client of mine over the weekend and I was beside myself
with the difficulty that he has been going through.
It amazes
me when perfectly wonderful people find themselves subjected to outrageously
bad behavior of others. What do you suppose someone would gain long term
from tormenting the person that profess they are in love with?
His soon
to be ex-wife has been taking great pleasure in tormenting him on a daily
basis while minutes later ask if they can get back together!
My advice
is to run, run as fast as you can from the verbal, physical and emotional
abuses that others seem to believe they have a right to inflict on you!
Please,
take care of yourself!
Posted by
Sharyn: Monday, February 25, 2008
Lose all
the weight you want,
fall in
love with your soul mate,
make millions
of dollars . . .
How can you make all
of those self help books actually work?
A friend once told me
that if the self help books actually worked, we'd all be thin, rich and
madly in love with our perfect mate.
The fact is, we all struggle
in one or more areas in our lives, so what makes the difference between
someone who struggles to survive and others who seem to have a golden spoon?
Do you think it's luck?
Do you believe that you are doomed to stay in the same deprived state of
live you are currently living?
Why not take the first
step in Create Your Own Reality?
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